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Soleil vs Lasting

Soleil vs Lasting

Lasting teaches. Soleil happens. Both partners. 5 minutes a day.

Lasting (acquired by Talkspace) pioneered therapist-designed couples lessons inside an app. Soleil takes a different bet — instead of homework-style lessons, it builds a tiny daily ritual into the rhythm of your day, plus a guided repair flow when things get hard.

Who Lasting is

Lasting is a therapist-designed lesson app built around the Gottman Method, acquired by Talkspace in 2020. Sessions feel like guided couples-therapy modules.

Where Lasting shines

  • Deep, clinically-grounded lesson content
  • Owned by Talkspace — strong therapy pedigree
  • Good for couples who want explicit relationship education

Where Soleil wins

  • 5 minutes a day, not 20–30 minute lessons — built for couples with real lives
  • A morning + midday + evening rhythm instead of one-off sessions
  • Repair Room with voice notes — for the actual fight, not a hypothetical one
  • Cultural lens — Caribbean, Afro-Latin, S Asian, E Asian voices Lasting doesn't offer
  • Memory Garden, Time Capsules, Voice Keepsakes — your relationship's living archive
  • Lower starting price ($12.99/mo) vs Lasting's $11.99+/mo

Feature by feature

FeatureSoleilLasting
Daily 5-min ritual
Therapist-designed lessonsFrameworks built in (EFT/NVC/Gottman)
After-the-fight repair flowRepair Room (6 steps + voice)Repair lesson modules
Voice notes between partners
AI relationship guideMaître Soleil
Cultural personalization6 lenses
Memory archiveGarden + Capsules + Book
Music as a love languageShared Groove
Starting price (USD)$12.99/mo · both partners$11.99/mo+

The honest take

Pick Lasting if you want structured therapy-style lessons and have 20 minutes for homework. Pick Soleil if you want a daily ritual that fits into 5 minutes, with a real tool for when the fight actually happens.

Frequently asked

Is Soleil a replacement for couples therapy?+

No — and neither is Lasting. Both are practice apps. Soleil supports the daily rhythm; for clinical care, see a licensed therapist. Maître Soleil and Repair Room are reflective tools, not diagnostic ones.

How long does Soleil take per day?+

Under 5 minutes total. The morning Sunbeam is 60 seconds, midday is 90 seconds (Hidden Quest or Shared Groove), and the evening Petit Moment is 2–3 minutes.

Does Soleil work for long-distance couples?+

Yes. The Sunbeam, Hidden Quest, Shared Groove, and Voice Keepsakes are all asynchronous — both partners participate on their own time and the app reveals when both are done.

Try it for yourself

14 days free. Both partners. No card to start.

Five minutes a day. A guided repair flow for the hard nights. An archive that holds the small things you'd otherwise forget.

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